Frequently Asked Questions

Rebecca, I know this is a personal question, but are you neurodivergent or autistic?

I’m not—but I have close family members who are, and I care deeply about the neurodivergent community. My work is grounded in respect, understanding, and a commitment to neuro-affirming care.

Why do you say “autistic adult” instead of “adult with autism”?

Language matters. Many people in the autistic community prefer identity-first language (e.g., “autistic person”) because autism is an integral part of who they are—not something separate. Others prefer person-first language (e.g., “person with autism”). I use both, depending on context, and I always honor each individual’s preference.

And why do you use neurodivergent and autistic interchangeably?

All autistic people are neurodivergent, but not all neurodivergent people are autistic. Neurodivergence includes a range of lifelong brain-based differences, such as autism, ADHD, learning disabilities, and more. I sometimes use the terms interchangeably when referring to autism specifically, but I recognize and respect the broader neurodivergent spectrum.

Is the correct term ‘neurodivergent’ or ‘neurodiverse’? What’s the difference?

Great question! “Neurodivergent” refers to an individual whose brain functions differently from what’s considered typical. “Neurodiverse” describes a group of people with varied neurotypes. If you’d like to explore this further, this article offers a helpful breakdown of the terminology.

What do you mean by "autistic adults without intellectual disability"? 

This refers to individuals with average to above-average intellectual functioning. Many of the adults I work with are professionals, students, or creatives who have long wondered if autism might explain their experiences.

If I’m just a few months shy of turning 18, will you evaluate me?

I only evaluate adults aged 18 and older. If you're just a few months away, I’d love to hear from you when the time comes. And happy early birthday!

What is the best way to contact you?

Click the “Contact Me” button on my website and include your email address. I’ll follow up with you via email as soon as I can.

Do you evaluate autistic adults full-time?

Not full-time. I’m also a university professor at a large Midwestern university. My research focuses on the female presentation of autism in adults without intellectual disability and on social justice in counseling psychology.

What mental health support services do you offer?

At this time, I only provide diagnostic evaluations for adults (18+) who do not have an intellectual disability and are exploring whether they may be autistic.